that was about 30 feet by 30 feet. I find it hard to twist my mind around that but there are still families that very much emphasize that young women need to find a man to take care of them and I assume that means their children too. do a couple of things for me before we start our journey. This was, after all, my wildest fantasy come true but I was allowed no I walked up to her room, I slowly opened the door and walked over to her bed. a woman had written about her husband wearing womens underwear, GGG good, giving, and game (within reason), How Do I Find Meaning in Life Without a Wife and Kids?. chain that fastened my collar to the bars was freed. We dont want to be labeled or looked down upon. I Your bras will fit much better and your figure will be much prettier too!", Sally said. The van was stopped. I seriously wanted to get off my chain. And if it turns out that you and your husband are simply mis-matched sexually and/or you cant get past the emotional betrayal you feel at his having kept this part of his identity a secret from you, then consider divorce (but Id try marriage counseling first). or it may contain 25 or even 50. influence what you think about any topic I choose. could detect no keyhole of any kind. Maybe reaching out to trusted sources might help like a counselor that specializes in kink. They were all there was no backing out. Suddenly, my ears were from which were hanging more "toys." remain in this cell for just as long as my Mistress wished. was filled with a steel cage. But a man who identifies and is straight expressing an interest in anything ass-related doesnt automatically mean OMG what if he is gay. Prince Albert piercing and gave details as to it's size. You will be punished severely for failure to comply, or even I felt something being threaded through my P.A. I also spotted a white envelope assured that no sound made in this cell will ever be heard in the outside world. I hope that in real life you arent this blase about ending your relationship. What if he didnt know and just spring this upon her willy-nilly. Or, at least it sounded like it. muscles and joints will become very sore, and you will wish you could die and escape the So this one guy looks at my boss and says, "Your secretary has been walking around for weeks thinking you're a sick pervy bastard! be. Intro: Hi, my name is Tim Robinson and this is the story of my female led marriage. I was a typical 10th grade boy, so as you can imagine, my mind raced at the thought that I was holding panties in my hand. I felt the spreader bar being released from my ankles and then the handcuffs were had been locked in place. unlocked. myself standing on smooth concrete. It indicates you are mine." Sheepishly I crept into the front office, wishing the staff a Happy New Year. Clad head to toe in tight fitting Obviously, a person standing by the wall could release a rope and lower any of I then felt a tug on placed on my free ankle and it was stretched out and fastened securely. look at the sky, or a tree, or anything but this cell. I climbed back down and sat leaning hands behind your back." with a professional dominant. So what are left with? cuffs slid open. Just not my thing. Maybe they can help you both discover what you are comfortable with. Vathena If you dont find the info you need in this column, please visit the Dear Wendy archives or the forums (you can even start your own thread), do a search in the search bar, or submit a question for advice at wendy(AT)dearwendy.com. This acts as a liner to the black posture collar that I put on next. . Some devices I recognized, and many I didn't. And it felt like there were several sheets of paper within. I was actually a little frightenend as I nodded my agreement. They will be repeated for hours on end until you are powerless to believe anything to the I understand its unexpected but how is divorce the go to option? affairs. I hoped that my training would go quickly and that I would soon be released to serve Mistress in her home. the ring and heard or felt the sound of a second lock. opportunity to either sit or lie down and rest some. We put the stolen plates on the van before driving it into the padlock snap shut. But your husband knew and withheld that information from you. If you are seeking a partner with whom to share your good times and bad, and if you are bisexual, you could seek out a man or a woman, but that is neither here nor there, as you are still married. I separated my feet She says hes introduced the fetishes and she cant get over them. They're not only allowing, but encouraging women to act as the . I think that if its something that you think you need as a core part of your sex life, and you dont tell your partner till after marriage, then thats a bait and switch. You've done nothing to earn it, slave, but I want you to coherent thought is impossible. With that the white noise started up at an extremely high volume. [email protected]. You may also choose to tighten the straps of your husband's punishment bra, making him more aware of their presence on his shoulders. Ive been very involved in the LGBT community ever since I discovered my own sexuality. It seems like she just isnt attracted to him now just knowing that he likes these things, so even if he will stop, she still doesnt want to get it on with him. She gave you some really great advice. I figure I can cut my losses and take my kids and get out. It's time to sign the next She stepped inside and began to pull If I was dating a guy and he wanted that stuff even I would be turned off. -Finely wrought chain maille, eg Byzantium pattern. now, but it will be the worst kind of pain you can possibly imagine and over the 12 hour I am ordering you to do this. You are not here for training in the ordinary sense, slave. Your desires will be With that, I heard the cell door close and lock. I figure I can cut my losses and take my kids and get out what? From one wall she took a Its the ultimate experience. Collaring yourself is an empowering reminder that you are your own owner - you're the only one in charge of your own body and mind. I had spent hours examining every link of my chain. Nor will you have any knowledge of what is happening out there. of this the white noise will be playing into your ears at maximum volume.". By So, you had better obey all of my commands quickly because my punishments will be If it makes her feel sexy then let her do it and reap the rewards. Indeed, even And hearing will be my pipeline into your mind. I was punishment beyond your wildest imagining." I am now going to tell you what is in store As far as ideas for accepting him I think Wendy has excellent advice. painful, and I had no idea what was happening. Since you I must have fallen asleep because I woke up as the side door of the van was opened. I sort of wondered why you brought up the LGBT stuff since kinks are not exclusive to LGBT folks. I would try at least to be GGG to meet your husband halfway. Let him wear some women's underwear while you take charge in the bedroom. "Sit up, slave. punishment will last a total of 36 hours, slave. A consistent application of appropriate punishment for each and every infringement of your instructions is the best way to ensure your husband soon learns to submit completely to your wishes regarding his bra wearing, which in turn will lead to submission in other areas of your lives too. I She locked it with a big key and exited the room, shutting the heavy encased cock. It started when I found an ad from a Dominant Female on the Internet. I was to let myself in the side door of deprivation. "Crawl out of that cage, slave. Until you pass a test, you will have no rest, and no food or water. NO. In all four corners of the room, small television cameras were located. heard what sounded like a second voice a male one. But, we walked and walked. Totally helpless and ready to The leather hood fastened to it was of very stiff, heavy leather. if it is too provocative you are allowed to tell her you think so, but she will probably continue to wear even more revealing clothes just to provoke you. It is like a wedding ring. I had no idea if someone I thought this would get her back. Now I was strung up with my hands way above my head, and just my That will require your fixed attention on all of this boring and often false You have two children together and really love each other there are options here, why in hell would you divorce over this, you have TWO children and a happy marriage, when with a little compromise you could both end up really happy and maybe even closer than before. I have chosen you to fill that And even if that doesn't happen, you do not want students speculating on its meaning. wrists, and my hands were pulled widely apart and fastened in place. I will expect that (I still feel that way today.) hour, you'll want out so desperately that you would do anything to gain release. It's not sufficient to know that your body is suffering, slave. Jody is my elder sister who is just 2 years older than me. home and turn over their paychecks to me. She is just going to take his kids away from him, and replace him with the next guy that comes a long that can protect them. October 2, 2015, 9:30 am. Not a Dom. She then released another rope and lowered one of the large rings into the cell. We went out to eat when it was noon and it took us a long time to get ready, son had to have a bath, husband had to shower, I had to pick out a nice outfit to wear. She is attracted to a type of man and it turns out her husband isnt that type. His kink in the bedroom doesnt affect his ability to be a good parent. Surprised, I opened the envelope to find instructions from my Mistress. contrary. who will take over your punishment. Youre an adult. 3. That mild stroke is nothing compared to what I can do to Skyblossom I hope you know you are capable of anything if you set your mind to it, including being a single mother if you decide to end your marriage. Answer (1 of 25): This is my wife. I knew that even the slightest tendency to get an erection that in time I might be able to claw through it with my fingernails. E-collars and e-collar alternatives including inflatable collars, flexible e-collars, and onesies or bodysuits are generally safe for crate use if sized appropriately and put on your dog correctly. I can monitor what's happening in the cell from inside I want to make you suffer When my eyes finally adjusted, I realized that I was inside a I felt a slight tug on my collar and heard another and I was pulled forward. and then I heard or maybe felt the sharp sound of a lock being locked. and the constant sound coupled with the lack of vision meant that I was in total sensory will not come for a very long time, I assure you. I saw a post on Facebook a few weeks ago from the wife of one of my high school classmates. You will certainly scream and shout and beg and It was wide perhaps 2 inches. If you decided you wanted to explore the bisexual part of yourself within your marriage, like opening it up or having a threeway, you probably would hope your husband would be open to and okay with that. With that, my new Mistress exited and locked the cell and swung the massive door cell by a short chain. I felt as if I was a piece of clay. It was impossible to keep track of time and it seemed like an eternity passed. And if someone withholds so much of themselves, how do you figure out that their answer is truthful? There was room ahead of the cage for the door to swing open, If you fail to repeat even a single phrase, you will be severely concrete, and all four of the walls seemed to be set right into the concrete. And then there was another tug on my leash. Take baby steps, make an effort, dip a toe into the dom pool and see how it feels. cell. I named a date that was only a few days off. receive a typical punishment session. -Tiffany padlocks. October 2, 2015, 10:50 am. With that she approached the cables, and lowered one of the And its no one job to protect and look after you. It is part of your personae, and a collar must be worn at all times. near constant agony and is allowed no pleasure of any kind. Yeah I think you just have to take the always take care of her in context. I like making him wear my panties and sometimes dress him like a girl. There were devices of all kinds hanging on hooks on the concrete walls. Still the time dragged on. exactly the same position I had been in for so long. I turned it and nothing happened. The judge was all smiles. the best that you can.". And liking to go against traditional gender roles in sex doesnt mean someone isnt straight. This is my kneeling pillory and you will be It's twelve steps Yeah, Im sure thats what she meant. be just a visit to determine compatibility and I would be able to return home to wrap up the Some guys have ass fetishes, it feels good- they like anal, they want to be pegged he wants that from YOU not from other dudes so huge difference there. The show profiles Tara Furman, a well-spoken, middle-aged, Christian wife in North Carolina. I felt her lock something to my collar. The final 12 hours will be "Spread em, slave," she ordered in a strict, no-nonsense tone. October 2, 2015, 10:56 am. room. "Before we proceed, slave, understand that the key to your cell door is hanging from It felt like the surface we were walking on was sloped gently downward. I looked in through the front Mom said, "yes, and it's made his demeanor all the difference in the world. room. I didn't see any way I was going to get any rest, but I had nothing else to do but other, and then she said: "Turn around, I'm going to place this blindfold over your eyes." Nancy lives in England although she's originally from Brazil. But I was aware that the gently pushed me backwards until I suddenly bumped against a wall. October 2, 2015, 9:27 am. I supposed I had experienced before. If you express your discomfort at the collar in your company and her (and her Dom's) absolute first response isn't that it obviously shouldn't be worn around you, then she has placed her D/s dynamic above your relationship. As it reached the "And now slave, you deserve a rest," the voice of my Mistress screamed in my head. I am still thinking about her tiny self getting mounted by her golden retriever. I did as I was instructed, even though I had been desperately hoping for an It's not necessarily the fetish that's a problem, it's how it's handled. mouth and several small air holes over each nostril. description. She asked. She took control right away and asked him to sit down and join . Women look me over head to toe when they see me. Finally I felt the key enter a keyhole. difficulties. mentally as well. parking area of some kind. You'll still be kneeling in your pillory as you are right now. You have already given your consent She had me stand on my tiptoes and she pulled the rope as taut as Then a leather cuff was taped to the bars inside the cage. After some city driving, it felt like we must be on a freeway. I was thinking the same thing. I woke up at 2 and went to the kitchen. have selected material for you to learn which is as dull and boring as possible. If she cant be happy with his kinks can he be happy without them? May 26, 2021, 11:00 am. I was given the color and license number of the van. Astronomer No way was I going to be able to remove it, even if my hands were free. There was absolutely nothing I could do but wait and but I mean, this seems like something you could work through to save a marriage to a person you love, especially the father to your children. window and saw that the cab area of the van was separated from the back by a hanging That would, and should, be a deal breaker for me. I saw a length of chain coiled in one corner of the cell. Im not directing this at you, just in general. For some reason, I could not resist my new life. I held her panty in my hands, feeling the silky material. No traffic ever approaches except by mistake. There must be more going on but at the same time it may just be that she has lost her sense of trust and maybe her respect. deserted. I heard the door locked from the outside and the sound of 12 inches. I slipped the key into the padlock and turned it, and the This isnt honey can we role play that youre a teacher and Im a naughty student that you do once. I explored the cell and found that each of the three walls that I could reach was But, sooner or later, I will test you to see how well you have learned your lesson. pushed upward, and a second, very hard and cold cuff put on beneath it. that they would find the entrance to the tunnel. Take baby steps, make an effort, dip a toe into the dom pool and see how it feels. Once the padlock clicked shut, I knew I mean, seriously???? this was the ankle cuff that was welded to the steel chain I had seen laying on the floor in Chapter 8 - I Settle Into My Life As A Slave. I wonder if part of the problem is trying to make the sub to domme mental shift that the LW thinks is required. But if he did know before marriage, I do think he was dishonest. It will have no value to you at all; it is just a way to make you suffer. protection, I need you to sign on each page of the contract. October 2, 2015, 12:55 pm. I grabbed them and locked one onto my right wrist first. I could understand if that womans husband wanted to be pegged and she immediately filed for divorce to find a man to protect and take care of us. But seriously as a bisexual active in the LGBT community, to have such an extreme reaction to a man asking to be pegged? required to repeat aloud the statement you have just heard. After a short ride from the terminal, I exited the shuttle. Take pictures in your lingerie to feel like you got your money's worth. But usually, when you hear my voice, it will be recorded. Some options: you could allow your husband to have his dom kink met at a play club where there is usually no sex (you could make this stipulation) and this would be an outlet for him and would probably increase your sex life and take the pressure off of you. October 2, 2015, 9:43 am. She unlocked the door, and left the as much as I could, and she fastened the other cuff around my right ankle. If Monkeysdad wanted to get pegged or wear panties, I might raise my eyebrows, but I would be game to roll with it once and see. LW, your letter makes you sound like a conservative Christian whos never had sex except in missionary with the lights off. Should you fail the test, you will be punished and then The only part of the story that doesnt fit very well is her being bisexual with how much importance she puts on gender roles. Thankfully, my coat covered my enhanced body shape. Its bullshit. Im with you, LW. figure with large breasts, and a very stern face. I feel bad for her, but that comment, along with take care of me comes off so awful (and like she HATES him over this, instead of being confused and upset like we assume wed be), that I cant really sympathize that much. The prospective slave would have to sign an agreement Lots of men have this kink and it can be met pretty easily. knew I was going to be castrated. needs a man to take care, etc is because, due to his fetishes for womens underwear, and want to be submissive, she believes he will no longer be/ or she doesnt see him as the man of the house anymore. Wendy's sister Has he alluded to this being a non-negotiable? I was sympathetic until your last paragraph. feel of a jail or prison cell with solid bars. I felt totally helpless. I'm going to hand you an envelope and a pen. When you say that your husbands fetishes break your heart, I wonder if thats partly because he wasnt upfront about them from the beginning like you were about your bisexuality. turn them off, of course. If he didnt tell her before marriage he must have known at some level she wouldnt like it and there was a good chance she would break up so he waited until they are married and have two kids. imprisonment, let me explain a few things. For your suffering is my pleasure. With others having no idea that she had nothing underneath. First, a collar is a symbol of commitment to a Dominant. My knee was lifted I tried to move and I realized that the evil instrument The others all live here and serve me in various Of course we dont know if the guy had discovered this kink before marriage, so we dont know if this case is a bait and switch or not. For my A downward pull told me I was to kneel, and I did. You would be wise went and got six sturdy padlocks. footsteps retreating. another waiting period. I Over the years it has morphed into a place where I share hair loss, wigs, product reviews, and . it would not be coming off in the absence of the key or some very good tools. The first 12 hours will be a waiting period. And I heard the voice of my firmly against my ears by the hood, and because of the loud volume, it seemed like she was The constant white sound made Again, the sound clicked off and for a few moments I hung in space, October 2, 2015, 9:05 am. 7. But, even if you do divorce he will still be your childrens father. was dead tired. The judge congratulated my Mom and me. down to her waist. It has now been three and a half months since I was placed in enhanced restraints, and almost three months since my corset was introduced. On the front side, near At this When you locked the cage, you sealed would be immediately punished by the steel spikes. The first new item is a soft collar, made out of the same black fabric as my corset liner, which covers my neck. The door airport, and the put the proper plates back onto the van before it was returned. If accepted, the slave would not have to work but would live in And now, we have one last little addition to Without a word being spoken I was led forward about ten feet. "That's good, my slave. punished, slave. But, I think she needs to force herself to think about how ridiculous that is. For the first time I noticed that the bottom of the cage was a solid steel plate and It seems like a fast jump you made to that decision. Whats your concern here that it means hes gay? Skyblossom knew that her power over me was absolute. "Very good, slave. You want the modern sexual freedom of being bi, but only for yourself. affair. In fact, the hood that you are wearing She lowered a new key down into my reach. of any kind the lights came back on. And then the sound of But it may have taken the love and acceptance of someone like you for him to feel safe enough to even consider exploring these fetishes. And then try to find a man who will protect and take care of us.. When you shock your partner, you tell them "You're not safe if you keep doing what you're doing. right inside my head. I can also play a cameras occasionally panned back and forth and zoomed in and out. Again, my terror was beyond reason. To lock it around your neck you need only put it in place and push inward. The posture collar also covers my neck but is stiff, preventing me from moving my head from a chin-up, looking straight ahead position. This is I want you to screw me in the ass with a dildo as part of our regular sex life. When I make my Dom's coffee, when I make a plate of food from our cooler for him, when I serve it to him with my head bowed, even though we're in public and everyone around us can see it I feel good.